How to Stay Spiritually Consistent When Life Is a Mess

Let’s be real for a second: life can get messy. One week you’re feeling on fire for God, and the next you’re drained, distracted, and wondering how long it’s been since you really spent time with Him.

If that sounds like you, you’re not alone. As I write this I just finished moving into my dream apartment and I haven’t spent quality time with the Lord in around 2 weeks; that is a long time for me and I feel out of sorts.

As women, we carry so much—work, kids, relationships, emotions. And in the chaos, our faith routines often take the hit.

But here’s the truth: faith consistency doesn’t mean perfection. It means returning to Jesus, again and again, even when life is messy.

We hear a lot about “quiet time” and “spiritual routines,” but let’s be clear: God is not keeping score. He’s not angry if you missed a day. He’s inviting you to return—to abide. He is so faithful in that He waits on us and gives us Grace.

“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.” — Lamentations 3:22-23 (NIV)

Every day is a fresh start.

So if you’ve been inconsistent, if your prayer life feels dry, if the Word hasn’t been opened in weeks—grace is still yours.

Before we fix the routine, we need to name the real roadblocks. Be honest:

• Is it busyness?
  
  

• Is it emotional exhaustion?
  
  

• Is it guilt or shame for drifting away?

• Is it just a life change like I just experienced
  
  

Sometimes, it’s not just your schedule—it’s your spirit that’s tired.

Here are 4 common reasons we lose consistency:

1. Guilt – “I’ve missed too many days. God must be disappointed in me.”
   
   

2. Distraction – We fill every margin with phones, TV, or people.
   
   

3. Overwhelm – We think devotion time has to be long or perfect to matter.

4. Confused - Too many people telling you how your time with God should look.
   
   

But God isn’t looking for your performance—He wants your presence.

Small habits are powerful. A 5-minute choice can shift your entire mindset.

Try:

• Playing worship music first thing in the morning
  
  

• Reading one scripture before touching your phone. Get our Fav Bible Set Here
  
  

• Whispering a one-line prayer while getting dressed
  
  

“Remain in me, as I also remain in you.” — John 15:4a (NIV)

The goal is connection, not completion.

Out of sight = out of mind.

• Keep your Bible or devotional on your nightstand or kitchen counter
  
  

• Use sticky notes with scriptures in places you visit often (mirror, car, laptop)
  
  

• Choose simple resources like the Daughters of the King devotional, which only takes a few minutes a day but reminds you who you are in Christ
  
  

💡 Pro tip: If it’s hard to start, use a guided devotional that speaks directly to your season. No overthinking, just show up and read.

You don’t have to:

• Wake up at 5AM
  
  

• Journal pages of notes
  
  

• Read a whole chapter of the Bible
  
  

Let’s redefine success:

• Did I invite God into my day?
  
  

• Did I make one small choice to connect with Him?
  
  

• Did I remember that I’m loved?
  
  

If you answered yes to even one of those… girl, you’re doing better than you think.

“Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.” — James 4:8a (ESV)

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This free devotional download walks you through five simple yet powerful shifts you can make each day to grow closer to God—without adding pressure or guilt.

In this freebie, you’ll learn how to:

• Prioritize time with God (even in 10 minutes)
  
  

• Choose faith over feelings
  
  

• Speak life over yourself
  
  

• Stay anchored when emotions try to pull you away
  
  

• Walk in your God-given purpose
  
  

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No shame. No beating yourself up. Just start again.

Whether you missed one day or one year, Jesus is still ready to meet with you. His arms are always open. His love never skips a beat.

You don’t need to get it all right—you just need to Choose Him Daily.

And if you need a gentle, grace-filled devotional to keep going, check out the Daughters of the King 30-day devotional. It’s perfect for women who need a reminder that God still sees them, still loves them, and still calls them daughter.

Faith isn’t built in a day—it’s built by the choices we make every day.

If life has felt heavy, inconsistent, or spiritually dry, that doesn’t disqualify you. It simply means it’s time to lean in again.

Start small. Stay close. Choose Him—again and again.

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Download your free guide and start with one choice today:

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You are seen. You are loved. You are His. Keep choosing Him—one day, one prayer, one step at a time.

If this encouraged you, share it with a sister who needs it too. Leave a comment, reshare, or let me know what spoke to your heart. 💛

-Gabriella Nicole